www.TheNewBarker.com
66 THE NEW BARKER
by Keenan Knopke, President & CEO of Curlew Hills Memory Gardens
When a beloved pet passes away, the grief felt by the
family is often profound and all-encompassing.
However, the emotional impact extends beyond
the human members of the household. Pets, partic-
ularly those who share a strong bond, experience
grief in their own way. For pets who have lost a com-
panion, the transition can be just as difficult as it is for
the owners.
Pets, like dogs and cats, form close relationships
with other animals in the household. They can develop
deep emotional connections with their siblings, often
relying on each other for comfort, companionship, and
support. When one pet passes, the surviving pet may feel
a sense of loss, loneliness, and confusion. As a pet parent,
it’s important to acknowledge their grief and provide the
support and care they need during this challenging time.
Understanding Pet Grief
Pets have emotional lives that are often more com-
plex than we realize. While they may not express their
feelings in words, they can feel sorrow and experience a
range of emotions when a close companion passes away.
The grieving process for animals is not dissimilar to that
of humans. They may mourn the loss of a companion,
exhibit behaviors that reflect sadness, and take time
to adjust to the new normal.
The grief response in pets often varies
depending on their personality, the depth of their
bond with the deceased companion, and their past experiences.
Dogs, for example, are known to form strong social bonds, and
the loss of a sibling may cause them to experience sadness, anx-
iety, and disorientation. Cats, while more independent, can also
form close bonds and may exhibit behaviors such as hiding, eat-
ing less, or vocalizing more when grieving.
Signs That Your Pet Is Grieving
Recognizing the signs of grief in your surviving pets is cru-
cial in order to offer them the support they need. Some pets
may show subtle changes in behavior, while others may display
more obvious signs. Here are some common behaviors to watch
for:
1. Change in Appetite: Grieving pets may lose their
appetite or stop eating altogether. They might also be more hes-
itant to drink water or eat their favorite treats.
2. Changes in Activity Levels: Your pet might become
lethargic or more withdrawn after the loss of a companion. They
may sleep more, lose interest in play, or show less enthusiasm for
walks or other activities they once enjoyed.
3. Vocalization Changes: Some pets may vocalize more
often, especially if they are searching for their missing compan-
ion. In the case of dogs, this could involve increased bark-
ing, whining, or howling. Cats might meow more fre-
quently or become unusually quiet.
4. Seeking Isolation: Many pets, especially those
who are more sensitive, may seek out quiet places or iso-
late themselves more than usual. They may spend more
time in secluded areas of the house, avoiding other pets
or family members.
5. Searching for the Deceased Pet: It is
common for pets to search for their deceased com-
panion, especially in the early stages of grief. They
might wander around the house, sniffing areas that
their sibling used to frequent or seem confused by
the absence.
6. Aggression or Anxiety: Some pets may
become more anxious or exhibit signs of
aggression after losing a companion. This could
include excessive barking, growling, or even a
change in their behavior toward other pets or
people in the household.
7. Restlessness or Disorientation: Pets
might appear restless, pacing around the house,
or acting disoriented. This can be a sign that they
are having trouble processing the loss and are
searching for a sense of stability.
How to Help Your Surviving Pet Cope with Grief
Supporting your grieving pet involves offering comfort,
maintaining routines, and providing reassurance. Here are some
ways to help your surviving pet navigate through their grief:
1. Maintain Routines and Structure
Pets thrive on routine and familiarity. After the loss of a
companion, the surviving pet may feel confused and insecure.
One of the best ways to help them cope is by maintaining a
consistent daily routine. Keep feeding times, walks, and playtime
as regular as possible to offer them a sense of stability.
If your pet was used to having a playmate, try to maintain
some of the activities they did together, such as interactive play
sessions, games, or even training. This helps remind them that
the world is still predictable, and they can continue to enjoy
activities that bring them joy.
2. Provide Extra Attention and Affection
During the grieving process, pets need additional love and
attention. Spend quality time with your surviving pet by cud-
dling, playing, or simply sitting together. If they are seeking
comfort, provide it in the form of petting or gentle reassurance.
Be patient with their behavior and avoid scolding them if they
are acting out or seem clingy. They are likely looking for a sense
of security and will appreciate your support.
Supporting Your Pets
Through the Loss of a Companion
View this content as a flipbook by clicking here.